Want to get your ex back in one month? It’s totally possible! The problem is that most people try to get back with an ex with the wrong approach!

Before we lay out your plan to get your ex back in one month, there are a few things that need to be clarified.

First, you’re going to need to be strong and work on some difficult mental tasks. If you’re still upset and depressed about your break up, then you may have some trouble getting started on this plan. But just think: your ex can be back in your arms fast if you can muster the motivation and self control needed to follow this plan.

Here’s the way to get your ex back in one month:

First, drop all contact with your ex. This means no phone calls, text messages, impromptu meetings and emails. You’re going to be using curiosity to help get your ex back in one month. Any buildup of curiosity with be ruined if you talk to your ex too soon.

Second, take 2 weeks to do things you love. Start up your old hobbies, go out with old friends, study something that interests you or build your career.

This will do two things: you won’t be thinking about your ex and you’ll have something to impress your ex with once you start meeting again.

Next, at the start of the third week you’ll have to call your ex. Leave a mysterious phone message thanking your ex for something and say you’d like to meet in person to talk about it. Again, you can’t be too specific — the message needs to raise your ex’s curiosity.

Finally, meet with your ex. You have to learn to read body language and direct the conversation so that your ex wants to spend time with you again. If you can handle this meeting correctly, then you’ll score a second meeting and maybe a new “first date”.

Success! See? It is possible to get your ex back in one month.